The Woman Who Did not Get Hazed
“I went to an enormous Midwestern state college that—enjoyable truth!—has the largest Greek system on this planet. My pledge class wasn’t hazed as a result of my home bought in hassle for hazing just a few years prior, and I am so glad we did not. We needed to do issues like separate sequins by coloration whereas repeating a sorority chant, however nothing imply or dangerous.
Given who was in my pledge class, I believe precise hazing would have significantly messed a few of us up. I strongly, strongly consider it is actually exhausting for ladies to belief different women after they’re abusive ‘simply because.’ Hazing does not work.”
The Woman Who Obtained in Bother
“Throughout the second semester of my sophomore 12 months, my sorority was investigated for claims of hazing. A pledge at the moment did not like being requested to decorate up and attend her regular courses, so as an alternative of decide out of the costume day (which was actually and actually non-compulsory), she known as the nationwide headquarters of our sorority and complained. Seemingly in a single day, my small sorority had gained 4 new, very distinguished members: ‘elder sisters’ despatched by nationals to look at the goings-on of our chapter.
I pledged largely due to the social alternatives related to the Greek system at my tiny suburban school, and on the time of the hazing investigation, I held three management positions throughout the group. Though on the finish of our investigation nationals decided that we weren’t actually hazing, they fully dismantled our management system and changed everybody with the latest class of pledges. Evidently, our sorority didn’t carry the identical social clout anymore. Different Greek organizations did not need to affiliate with us, and the pledge who turned president went on an influence journey that made our sisterhood the largest joke on campus. Solely three pledges signed up for the next semester.”
The Woman Who Made Finest Buddies
“I went to an enormous college the place I did not know a soul, and I noticed becoming a member of a sorority as a method to meet individuals who have been like me—women who wished to get good grades and never fail out the primary semester, but in addition have a little bit enjoyable too, as a result of: school! I might heard rumors of hazing on campus, however I wished to provide Greek life a strive anyway. I am a little bit little bit of a child and have a low tolerance for imply women, however my expertise could not have been higher.
The semester spent pledging the sorority was enjoyable and provoking and precisely what becoming a member of a sorority ought to be—bonding with a home stuffed with (principally…!) superior women by spending time collectively, not getting our fats circled collectively. I imply, yeah, we have been quizzed about founders, anticipated to recollect essential dates, and inspired to know the names of older women, but it surely was a heck of much more fascinating than historical past class. And the buddies I made throughout that semester are actually my greatest pals, despite the fact that we have since graduated and dwell 1000’s of miles aside.”